D - D 10 things after 08.08.08

Hmmm..dah lama tak datang sini..dah dekat setahun kot..password pun dah lupa, nasib baik dapat recover balik. Chentaku kata "ni dah ade new look so update ler". I senyum jer..ni curi2 masa while Arissa tgh tido after breastfeed dia kul 3.30pm tadi..Sapa Arissa? :) Arissa is my pumpkin a.k.a my daughter.

Today is the 39th day of confinement..Alhamdulillah i'm fully recover from the operation and Arissa pun dah pandai kenal dengan dunia. Start confinement sampai la ari nie mak tak bagi lagi turun bawah, my parameter is very limited i.e. from bilik saya ->toilet-> living room ->bilik mak abah ->bilik miera (ini pun sbb ada pc dlm nie) and go back to my room..Chentaku balik pun hantar dari atas jer..TV la peneman saya, sama ada saluran berbayar atau tidak berbayar semua citer saya tengok hehe..macam mana nak gi kerja sok..ade citer yang saya ikut series dia.

Makan minum saya dijaga dengan baik oleh mak, abah n chentaku;), 2 minggu pertama-makanan saya ialah bubur nasi dan lauk saya ialah ikan haruan-saya tak pandai makan ikan sungai hmmm..sbb nak cepat baik, terpaksalah saya makan-nak nangis rasanyer. Last week baru saya makan nasi betul..hmm nikmat rasanyer hehe.Chentaku belikan pati ikan haruan untuk diminum..hmm ni pun satu hal, bau air tu pun dah nak termun@##, ku minum jua berselangkan air milo.Tak cukup ikan haruan, abah belikan jeli gamat, yg nie OK sikit, rasa dia pun sedap sikit ni pun makan hari2.Last but not least ubat spital yang berkodi2-yang kadang2 saya konpius dah makan ke belum hehehe...

Banyak benda berlaku after 08.08.08..hopefully I'm become more mature in handling things, more wiser and better person. InsyaAllah..Have to go now..my pumpkin is crying..

D 10 things after 08.08.08

1.I am officially wife to Nurul Rahman Mohamad. Thank you for marrying me :)
2.Last year, first time puasa/raya as a wife. Tahun nie 1st kita raya kat mana ek hehe?
3.Last Ramadhan, I was confirmed pregnant :)
4.Seremban is my second home after Ipoh.
5.I received couple of job offers from local and foreign bank.
6.I took an offer from a foreign bank with better offer and new job scope.
7.Hospital was a monthly visit spot for my husband and myself - to check our little baby.
8.I bloated myself with nutrition food for my baby..no kidding I am really2 bloated myself -last weighted b4 deliver was 94 kg!!!!
9. After 39 weeks , I experienced giving a birth thru caesarean.
10. Now, I'am a mother to Arissa Raisha bt Nurul Rahman.

Arissa Raisha - 1 day old

Now she is 1 month and 9 days old

C for Chentaku

Guoman PD - 2nd day Management Strategic Planning.

We had this game - answer the question by drawing. One of the question is:-

"Who you love most and why?"
My drawing is pic of my family and a guy.

Presentation time:

CEO :" Adella explain to us your drawing"
Me:" This is my family - my mom and dad, my eldest brother- along and this is my 2 younger sister - ibah and mira"
CEO:" Who is the other one?"
Me smiling :" my future husband"- blushing all the way
CEO: she smile and everybody is laughging" and why you love them?"
Me: " I love my mom and dad because in this world I only have one mom and one dad, without them I was not here today, I love my brother because he is the only brother that I have, I love my sisters is because they are the only sisters that I have and they are my best friend" i stop for a while..
CEO: " and how about the future husband" - everybody is laughing
Me" I love him because he respect me as a women and he treat me well as a women" <--- kembangs la org tu!tp ikhlas tau statement nie..

Last month, bila tengah sibuk cari barang kat dalam bilik kat umah Ipoh, ternampak my album..masa belajar kat UIA album ni kita simpan kat hostel,bila dah lama tak balik..tengok la gambo2 zaman dulu2..kononyer nak ubat rindu la nie hehehe.Kita pun selak la satu2..ade gamba mama and abah kahwin..gamba along masa kecik..gamba kita - bila tengok macam anak orang cina jer..dah sepet, tembam pulak..masa kecik abah kata kita nie anak Lee Kuan Yew (PM of Singapore) since kita lahir kat Johor Baru. Gamba mira ngan ibah pun ada gaks..

Alhamdulillah..i have beautiful family..we are happy family..my mom and dad brought me and other siblings well..cukup segala-galanya..cukup makan hehehe..cukup pakai..cukup didikan agama, didikan duniawi..hmm bila dah start hantar kad kahwin..rasa lain plak..insyaAllah doakan kebahagian, kesejahteraan kami..To mama and abah..terima kasih membesarkan ila..dari size 2 jari tapak kaki sampai dah size 8 kaki nie..

Dah habis tgk gamba tu semua..terselak last page..cuba teka gambar sapa?hehehe..gambar man of the year la kwang..kwang..bkn gambar sebenarnyer..its a poster- poster of candidate for IIUM Student Representative Council for Kulliyah of Information, Communication & Technology..nanti kita upload posternyer..tp kena mintak kebenaran dari tuan badan la..boleh ker nie?Poster tu kawan kita yang ambik kan tau..nak amik sendiri malu la plak..we been knowing each other for the past 8 years..masa study dulu I think la..tak ramai yang tahu yang kita kawan dengan dia..kita pun malu la nak cerita..even we are not that close masa belaja dulu..even my close friends pun tak tahu..

But masa final year..final semester..on that time kita tengah study for tommorrow paper nie..masa tu bilik kita kat 3rd floor my close friend wanie datang dr ground floor dan dgn malu-malu ayam dia tanya..

"betul ke awak dengan N tu kawan?"

kita pandang je dia..pastu kita tanya "kenapa?sapa cakap?" kita senyum..

wanie jawab "ala..jgn la marah kita tanya jer..ramai org dah ckp2 la..tp kita tak tahu betul ke tak"

kita jawab "awak rasa?"

dia sengih "ye kot"

kita jawab "hmm ye la kot" :)

Masa tu tak se-serius skrg la..masa belaja dulu..nak jumpa pun susah..call pun susah..dia banyak komitmen so sabar banyak2..Alhamdulillah after graduated our relationship is getting merrier until last year we decided to settlle down..August 8 is coming..and really looking forward to hold hands for the FIRST TIME after we know each other for 8 years and this is what I proud of in this relationship..

So Nurul Rahman Mohamad..Welcome aboard to my family..hopefully Allah S.W.T merahmati hubungan kita..I love u so much!

B for Books

As at today I have read about 5 books. I still have 2 books in reading which are La- Tahzan – bought by my fiancé ..(thank you dear) and one from Sidney Sheldon..and this morning I started read one book that my fiancé bring back from one conference he attended. The book title is Return on Learning – Training High Performance at Accenture (this is more on HR aspect).

Rasanyer..my first book mama n abah belikan for me and other siblings is Britainica Encyclopedia Set which is still ade dekat umah skrg..I still remember the set have 24 volumes including children and adults reading..rasanyer I managed to complete yang children punyer series..and than my first Bahasa Melayu story book is “Hakim yang Bijaksana” (lebih kurang la tajuk nyer) masa tu kita baru darjah 1..mama nak kita jadi lawyer..unfortunately kita tak minat la..tapi Allah S.W.T tu maha adil..my brother married to a lawyer :)..buku cerita pasal 25 rasul pun ade tapi kita baca separuh je from the 25 series..the other half tak sempat abiskan :)

Masa sekolah rendah..kita baca buku yang bercorak suspens, mystery..bila dah secondary school more to love story book i.e Ahadiat Akashah, Judith McNaught..bila dah masuk UIA..buku2 ilmiah yg dibaca..and from this also I was expose to Islamic books - which I can consider heavy reading (masa tu la) and which I only read for the sake of exam and for assignments) than when dah mula kerja..my reading dah slow because of workload..now I "paksa" myself to read on what ever current issues and especially on Islamic books, articles..which I thought I should start much2 earlier..my first reading on Islamic book ( i meant solid islamic book - not an article ye) after I graduate is La Tahzan..pelik kan..this kind of book will last in the list.. :) And of course the every day reading that we have to do is reading Al-quran..nie pun kadang2 tertinggal hmmm...

I still have few list of book that I wish to read i.e. Basic Black from Cathie Black (Cathie Black the most influential women in the business world, Hearst Magazines Prident.She oversees 19 magazines in the United States—including Cosmopolitan, Redbook and O, The Oprah Magazine—as well as more than 200 international titles in over 100 countries), Sophie Kinsella series..and many more

Before I end..just to share last week I went to Guoman PD for 4 days for my company Strategic Planning - where I was one of the secretariat for the course..while I was prepared material for evening session I found this song in the laptop from Opick - Taubat. Who is Opick? He is Islamic/Religious singer at Indonesia or his real name is Aunur Rofiq Lil Firdaus. Kita tersentuh dengar lagu nie..masa tu I was facing golf course dan matahari tengah turun.. the room is empty because semua org dah balik bilik..sunyi..I was so touch..sempat copy and until today I keep on repeating the song..Alhamdulillah at least there are singer out there can really touch your heart!Saturday is coming and looking forward to have the cd!

Opick - Taubat
wahai tuhan jauh sudah lelah kaki melangkahaku hilang tanpa arah rindu hati sinarmu wahai tuhan aku lemah hilang terumur noda hapuskanlah terangilahjiwa di hitam jalanku ampunkanlah aku terimalah taubatku sesungguhnya engkau sang maha pengampun dosa Ya robbi, ijinkanlah aku kembali padamu meski mungkin takkan sempurnaaku sebagai hambamu ampunkanlah aku terimalah taubatku sesungguhnya engkau sang maha pengampun dosa berilkanlah akukesempaatn waktuaku ingin kembali kembali...dan meski aku tak layaksujud padamu dan sungguh tak layakaku...

A for Assalamualaikum

Assalamualaikum..hi everyone. Not sure how to start, since this is my first write up hehehe..bila tengok orang ade blog, kita pun teringin..I think blogging ni macam kita tulis journal masa kat sekolah dulu, by end of the week buku kena hantar kat English teacher, for grammar checking hehe.. Hopefully this blog can help in expressing my thoughts/opinions/stories with others..and of course I welcome comments..